use cmake to compile the package instead of setup.py + make

[BDonnot]

TODO

• check all files compile
• check package compiles if KLU is available system wide
• check package compiles if KLU is provided in sub repo (current behaivour)
• check CKTSO compiles
• check NICSLU compiles
• check wheel has proper attributes
• check version is properly sent to c++
• check env var 03 optims works
• check env var COUT_TIME works
• check env var READTHEDOCS works
• check env var MARCHNATIVE works